Released: 1965
Tom Jones’ “It’s Not Unusual” is more than just a catchy tune; it’s a vibrant exploration of love’s ups and downs. The song encapsulates the feeling of seeing someone you adore being casual with others, sparking jealousy and sorrow, yet it also touches on the universality and unpredictability of love.
The opening lines, “It’s not unusual to be loved by anyone” and “It’s not unusual to have fun with anyone”, set a lighthearted tone. They suggest that loving and having fun are common experiences, implying a sense of freedom and ease in romantic interactions. However, the mood shifts with, “But when I see you hanging about with anyone, It’s not unusual to see me cry, I wanna die”. Here, Jones reveals a personal vulnerability. Despite the normalcy of socializing, seeing the person he loves with others causes him deep emotional pain, highlighting the sting of jealousy.
The song then moves into a realization with, “It’s not unusual to go out at any time, But when I see you out and about it’s such a crime”. Jones expresses how arbitrary interactions become significant when the object of his affection is involved, making ordinary activities feel like transgressions against his heart. The notion that “Love will never do what you want it to” speaks to the unpredictable nature of love, an uncontrollable force that often doesn’t align with our desires.
Jones also touches on the theme of normalization of emotional reactions in love with lines like, “It’s not unusual to be mad with anyone, It’s not unusual to be sad with anyone”. This acknowledgment that love can evoke a wide range of emotions, including anger and sadness, underscores the complex nature of human relationships. The hopeful twist comes with, “But if I ever find that you’ve changed at any time, It’s not unusual to find that I’m in love with you”. Here, Jones introduces the possibility of mutual feelings developing, highlighting the transformative power of love.
Through “It’s Not Unusual,” Jones captures the rollercoaster of emotions associated with love, from elation to despair. The song masterfully conveys the experiences of yearning, jealousy, and the ever-present hope for love’s reciprocation, all while making listeners want to dance along to its upbeat rhythm. Tom Jones, with his powerful voice and charismatic performance, has turned what could be a sad ballad into an enduring, spirited anthem that resonates with anyone who’s ever been in love.
